‘Done’ is better than ‘perfect but unfinished’
“Growing up, I would fixate over making things perfect. I come from a very academic and medial family which meant everyone had degrees to back up their expertise and opinions. Because I didn’t feel as qualified as they were, I would hold myself back and decline opportunities. I finally learned that there are different kinds of smart and that having the drive and will to get things done is just as important. Half the battle is just raising your hand and sticking your neck out there with something – anything. It doesn’t need to be perfect, just make it happen.” – Tanya Sam, Director of Partnerships at TechSquare Labs.
Stay away from alcohol
“If I could advise my younger self, I would tell her to be very wary of the lure of alcohol and to educate herself about the realities of addiction. I’ve learned that some people are more genetically prone to alcohol use disorder and after researching my genetics and family history, I discovered I’m one of those people. I struggled with alcoholism for ten years before getting sober in 2009. I also wish I could tell her to refrain from drinking before her brain is fully developed as drinking prior to that can also lead to developing alcohol use disorder. This can be hard, especially for younger people, so I would encourage her to seek out relationships with people who live healthy lives and who love and respect their bodies.” – Claudia Christian, TV actress and founder of C Three Foundation, a non-profit organisation dedicated to raising awareness for treating alcohol use disorder
Define yourself by your actions, not your title
“I wish I could tell my younger self that a happy life isn’t about becoming a noun – ’actor,’ ‘vice president,’ ‘CEO’ – it’s about living life with as many verbs as possible. What I mean by that is that I find so much more meaning from things like helping, learning, and serving, than I ever did from being an ‘actress’ or ‘entrepreneur.’ Being able to see myself as more than my title helped me transition from a career I loved on television to a new and exciting career as a leadership development expert because my identity was based on things I did, not what I called myself.” – Carol Lempert, actress, speaker, author, and leadership consultant