Book a vacation (or staycation)
Create a responsibility-free zone by getting away from your house and your normal life, even for just a few days or overnight. Even an inexpensive hotel or Airbnb in your hometown can be enough to relieve your brain of all the concerns of home. “Responsibility is the biggest killer of arousal, so if you can physically remove yourself from those reminders, you can have a care-free honeymoon feeling even decades into your relationship,” says Dr. Holbrook. Doing something out of the ordinary together can bring out many of those new feelings of desire. While you’re at it, agree to unplug electronic devices to help recreate the timelessness and lack of obligations of a honeymoon.